For him:
Lingham massage
The lingham massage is included in the Tantra massage. Be aware that an ejaculation is not happening. I don't deliver a sexual release, because then you are loosing life energy.
Only those are welcome who understand the tantric philosophy (what I talk about in my videos and on this site.)
I can't help with erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation or your libido.
From my point of view an authentic Tantra massage has another intention.